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The Slow Miracle of Transformation (book & website)
Evangelicals Mary Lou & Bob Wallner's journey chronicled from tragedy to transformation after the suicide of their daughter, Anna. They are featured in the ground-breaking movie, For the Bible Tells Me So. Mary Lou & Bob introduced Dotti & Roby. A special chapter is dedicated to them in her book. Our Story tells how Dotti and Roby met, and how they, in turn, met Mary Lou and Bob.  Their book (below) will FINALLY be out in 2009, whatever it takes! 

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Two Women & a Poodle Transcend Backyard Bigotry

Prayers for Bobby (article, book & movie)- Mary Griffith, Bobby's mother, learned from the tragic death of her son. She discovered that not all interpretations of the Bible are the same. Homosexuality is not viewed as an abomination by all churches; many are very inclusive. Mary Griffith became an activist, fighting for gay rights and equality.

 What the Bible Says/Doesn't Say about Homoesexuality
Rev. Dr. Lisa Davison
Professor of Old Testament
Lexington Theological Seminary

Lexington, Kenetucky


 Robynne Sapp, Rev. Dr. Lisa Davison, & Dotti Berry
after having just officiated at our wedding


Within Christian circles, the debate about homosexuality has been at the forefront over the past few decades.  It is not that this issue was unheard of until recently, but that it was not the focus of so much attention.  Much like the civil rights movement and the women’s movement, there was no problem as long as those in the GLBT community kept their place within a heterosexist religious system.  Only when GLBT persons began to ask for equal rights did the church make it such a hot topic.


The fodder for many of the arguments against homosexuality has been a handful of biblical texts, which have been misinterpreted by modern scholars as condemning of sexual behavior between two persons of the same sex.  In fact, some of the more modern translations of the bible contributed to the church’s anti-gay teachings (e.g., the New Revised Standard Version translation of 1 Cor 6:9 and 1 Tim 1:10 used the word, “sodomites,” to translate a Greek word that had no etymological connection to the town and/or people of Sodom).  Most people caught up in the turmoil over the issue have been laity who have relied upon their pastors/priests to instruct them on the biblical stance toward homosexuality. Unfortunately, too many clergy have either been ignorant of the facts or have not presented the whole truth to their congregants.  For example, many persons in the church are still unaware that there is no word for “homosexuality” in Hebrew, Aramaic, or Greek, the three original languages of the bible.  In fact, the word did not appear in the English language until the late 19th century.  Neither the ancient Israelites nor their later descendants within 1st century Judaism and the early church had any concept of sexual orientation, which is a relatively new concept for us today.


Understanding the historical, sociological, and ideological background of biblical texts is essentially in determining both an original meaning as well as a meaning for the modern faith community.  Particularly within the community that wrote and passed down the texts of the 1st Testament, the primary concern for Ancient Israel was for survival.  The dangers of life in those times meant that their people were constantly on the verge of extinction.  Many children did not survive past the age of 2 or 3, and life expectancy was very short, especially for women, who often died in childbirth.  Procreation was of the utmost importance.  Anything that endangered the possibility for children (e.g., masturbation, non-intercourse sexual activities, etc.) was a threat to the whole community. 


During the writing of the New Testament, the early church was also a minority group, but its greatest threat came from the Greek culture, especially their religions, and the threat of assimilation.  In trying to prove their legitimacy and carve out their identity, early church leaders, such as Paul, tried to emphasize the sins of Greek religion, especially their incorporation of sexual behavior within their rituals.  Anything even closely resembling their behavior (e.g., temple prostitutes, fertility rituals, etc.) was strictly prohibited for the new Christian community.


Given this backdrop for the reading and interpretation of the biblical materials, stories and passages once thought to condemn many things, homosexuality being one, are seen in a much different light.  The threats that existed for Ancient Israel and the early church are not what threatens today’s world and church.  We face possible extinction not due to lack of procreation but because of over population.  The Christian faith is no longer a minority voice, especially in the United States.  Just as the biblical texts were written in certain historical contexts, so must we interpret them today within our own contemporary world.


First/Old Testament Texts

1.                  Gen 1-2 – “God Created Adam & Eve, not Adam & Steve”


The above statement is often quoted by those who are opposed to the acceptance of GLBT persons and relationships.  Referring back to the two creation stories found in Genesis 1 & 2, this argument claims that heterosexuality was divinely ordained from the beginning of time.  This interpretation of the text fails to take into account both the literary and logical aspects of stories of creation.  First, one must realize that the point of any good story is to get from one point to the next as smoothly as possible.  The creation stories are attempting to explain how all of creation came to be, especially humanity.  Based on their understanding of procreation, the ancient writers understood that to go from two persons to many peoples, God had to start with a female and a male.  More specifically, both stories describe the creation of two sexes but not of sexual orientation.  In Gen 2, God understands that the first human creature is lonely.  Out of a concern for the human creature’s need for companionship, God divides adam into two parts.  The Divine affirms that we all need to be in relationships.  Thus, our lives are about finding that which completes us – male or female.


2.                  Gen 19 – The Origin of the Word, “Sodomite/Sodomy”


The sin of Sodom and Gomorrah was inhospitality, not homosexuality.  Hospitality was a primary obligation for persons in ancient cultures, especially Israel.  The way that the people of Sodom treated the two angelic guests showed their lack of hospitality and their hostility to those who were different from them.  Most of the biblical translations of Gen 19 fail to acknowledge that it was the whole community – male & female, young & old – who came to Lot’s house and demanded that Lot turn his guests over to them.  If anything, the citizens of Sodom intended to commit gang rape.  When the reader realizes that it was not just a group of men who demanded to “know” the male visitors, then the possibility of seeing the story as being about homosexual behavior disappears.  Interpretation of the story for centuries has been that their downfall was: greed, inhospitality, pride, injustice, idolatry, etc (cf, Isa 1:9, 10; 3:9; 13:19; Jer 23:14; 49:18; 50:40; Ezek 16:46, 48, 49, 53, 55, 56; Matt 10:15; 11:23-24; Mark 6:11; and Luke 10:12; 17:29).  One early rabbinic legend tells of two girls in Sodom.  The first girl was starving, so the second girl gave her some flower for making bread.  When the people of Sodom found out about this act of generosity, they burned the compassionate girl alive.  Only with Augustine in the 4th and 5th centuries C.E. did the sin become identified as solely “homosexual” behavior.  The Christian tradition’s understanding of homosexuality has been most influenced by his views, while the Jewish tradition has continued to understand the primary sin of Sodom and Gomorrah as being inhospitality.


3.                  Lev 18:22; 20:13 – “Abominations”

                        18:22 You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination.

20:13 If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall be put to death; their blood is upon them.


The Leviticus laws were intended only for Israel.  Primary concern was for Israel to remain holy and identifiable from other cultures/faiths.  Both texts speak of a man lying with another man as with a woman.  No mention of lesbianism.  Why not?  Again, concern for procreation.  Male-male sexual relations “wasted seed” as did “masturbation.”  Female-female sexual relations did not.  Also, these are men who the text assumes are naturally heterosexual, doing something against their “nature” and rather than an expression of love in a mutual relationship.  Another possibility is that the disgrace here would be that one of the men would have to “play the part of a woman,” which was the greatest humiliation for males in a patriarchal culture. 


Much ado has been made about the labeling of male-male sexual activity as an “abomination.”  The Hebrew word is to’ebah and it usually has to do with ritual impurity or with idolatry.  Perhaps it was related to the prohibition of participation in fertility cults of other cultures.  To keep this label in perspective, it is important to consider what other behaviors are called a to’ebah:  wearing polyester/cotton garments or eating foods which contain both meat and dairy products (e.g., cheeseburger).


Besides, Leviticus was not a pick and choose legal buffet.  One must follow all the laws or none of them.  Interestingly, Christians claim that the laws of Leviticus are no longer binding, but those who espouse anti-gay teachings refuse to let go of this one, even though they do not adhere to the other 600+ biblical laws.


New Testament Texts


1.                  Romans 1:26-27 – “unnatural relations”

For this reason God gave them up to degrading passions. Their women exchanged natural intercourse for unnatural, 27 and in the same way also the men, giving up natural intercourse with women, were consumed with passion for one another. Men committed shameless acts with men and received in their own persons the due penalty for their error. [NRSV, italics added]


This text is confusing all the way around.  Paul is describing what happens to persons of faith who turn to idols and follow other religions.  He describes one result of this unfaithfulness in the above verses.  The Greek phrase (see italicized word), para physin, is better translated as “unconventional” or “unusual”.  Paul uses same phrase in 1 Cor 11:14 in referring to men with long hair, something that today we probably do not see as being “sinful.”  The behaviors described in this text (i.e., sexual orgies, etc.) probably were connected to practices by Greek religions, which Paul deemed “pagan.”  These people were guilty of idolatry, and thus their behavior became unconscionable: orgies, envy, gossip, etc. Again, this refers to heterosexuals going against their natural orientation due to their worship of idols.  It has nothing to do with the natural physical expressions of love and intimacy by GLBT persons.


2.                  I Cor 6:9-10 – Sin Inventory

9Do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived! Fornicators, idolaters, adulterers, male prostitutes, sodomites, 10 thieves, the greedy, drunkards, revilers, robbers-- none of these will inherit the kingdom of God. [NRSV, italics added]


            3.        I Tim 1:9-10 – Another Sin Inventory


9This means understanding that the law is laid down not for the innocent but for the lawless and disobedient, for the godless and sinful, for the unholy and profane, for those who kill their father or mother, for murderers, 10 fornicators, sodomites, slave traders, liars, perjurers, and whatever else is contrary to the sound teaching. [NRSV, italics added]


The word translated in both passages as, “sodomites,” is the Greek word, arsenokoitai, which is hard to translate.  Linguistically, the word possibly means “male beds”.  It is most often used to mean “male prostitute.”  Again, Paul is concerned with pagan religious practices.  Many of the most recent translations of the bible have used “homosexuals” or “sodomites.”  Even the NRSV, consider by many denominations to be the most accurate translation to date, uses “sodomites” for this word.  The previous RSV used “sexual perverts.”  Clearly, Paul is not referring to a relationship between two consenting adults, whose attraction is to the someone of their same sex.


4.                  Jude 7 – “Strange Flesh”


Likewise, Sodom and Gomorrah and the surrounding cities, which, in the same manner as they, indulged in sexual immorality and pursued unnatural lust, serve as an example by undergoing a punishment of eternal fire.


Given the previous interpretation of the sin of Sodom & Gomorrah as inhospitality displayed in gang rape, this would certainly be considered sexual immorality, which is referred to in this text.  There is nothing said about males having sex with males, nor about females having sex with females.  In the time of the writing of Jude, sexual Immorality was a broad topic, as it still is today.  However, there is no reason to equate this description with homosexual behavior.


Sex-Friendly Texts


Given the dominant use of biblical texts to condemn certain sexual activities, one might wonder if there is any “good news” about sexuality in the bible.  One must concede that there are few of these texts in the New Testament.  With the influence of Hellenistic culture and the resulting dualism present in Christianity, sex became something unholy, necessary maybe, but not to be encouraged.  It was equated with the flesh and thus was seen as being base and not of a higher spiritual quality.  Luckily, though, the Ancient Israelites did not suffer from such dualism and the resultant separation of body and spirit.  The human being was seen as a whole.  God created us a “fleshy” beings, and thus the body could not be “bad.”


In the 1st Testament, sex is seen as a gift from God and is literally commanded by God of human beings.  The words of the Creator to the first humans, “be fruitful and multiply,” is also inherently a command to engage in sexual intimacy.  An overwhelming number of the stories in the 1st Testament involve sex in one way or another; for some texts it is the dominant topic.  Too many times, the stories involve unhealthy/abusive sexual activity, such as the rape of the Levite’s concubine in Judges 21 or the rape of Bathsheba by King David in 2 Samuel 11-12.  Despite all of this, there are some valuable texts in the 1st Testament for the celebration of sexuality, even that of same sex relationships.  Only mention three texts will be presented.


1.                  Song of Songs


This book is often shocking to the unsuspecting reader.  The book consists of nothing but erotic love poetry.  No mention is made of God, Israel, covenant, etc.  Early Christian biblical interpreters allegorized the text, claiming that it described the relationship between Christ and the Church or between Mary and God.  Either way, there are some pretty risque texts that one must fit into the allegory.  Earlier Jewish and contemporary scholars have approached the text as what it is, a vivid description of the love affair between two unwed individuals.  While the couple in the poem is heterosexual, the fact that their intimacy takes place outside the bonds of marriage seems to offer a parallel for same-sex relationships.  In addition, in a few places, the Song of Songs indicates that the couple has to keep their relationship secret and often take risks to be together, because their society does not approve of their being together.  To many GLBT persons this situation sounds all too familiar.  They, too, have had to keep their relationships secret and have taken risks in order to be with their companion.  People often ask why such a text as Song of Songs is in the canon.  It seems very plausible that its inclusion in the canon is due to the Israelites understanding of the basic goodness of a healthy sexual relationship and recognized God’s participation in that aspect of their lives as well.


2.                  Ruth & Naomi


How many of persons have been to a heterosexual wedding and heard these words read or sung: 


"Do not press me to leave you or to turn back from following you! Where you go, I will go; where you lodge, I will lodge; your people shall be my people, and your God my God.  Where you die, I will die-- there will I be buried. May the LORD do thus and so to me, and more as well, if even death parts me from you!" [Ruth 1:16-17, NRSV]


Many people never stop to think that these are the words Ruth spoke to Naomi, not those of a woman to a man.  It seems doubtful that this is something a woman would promise her mother-in-law, no matter how much she loved her husband’s mother.  No, the use of these lines in traditional weddings shows that the church (consciously or not) has always understood them to be words of life commitment.  Without thought to her own well being, Ruth chose to go to Bethlehem with Naomi.  Once there, Ruth did all she could to take care of her companion.  She even risked her safety to go and glean in the fields alone, so Naomi could have bread.  The society, though, required that they have a male, so that the family land could be inherited.  Ruth’s decision to seduce Boaz into marrying her was also risky.  She did it out of her love for Naomi; she was the birth mother for a child that would be raised by both of women.  By the end of the story, after he had done his part, Boaz disappears.  The scene is of Naomi & the baby, and women of the town, and we can assume Ruth.  The women, in celebration of Naomi’s grandson, proclaim to Naomi that Ruth “ your daughter-in-law who loves you, is more to you than seven sons.”  A similar statement is made by a man to his wife indicating his being “worth more than ten sons”  (Elkanah to Hannah in I Samuel 1).  Is it too much to imagine that Boaz was content to own the extra land, while Ruth and Naomi continued to live together and raise their son?  The fact that the compilers of the biblical canon included this story of Ruth and Naomi shows their comfort with portraying a positive picture of a committed

relationship between two women.



3.                  David & Jonathon


The bible records that King David of Israel had, among other things, many wives/women.  This was the expected behavior of a king, especially to insure a male heir to the throne.  David’s relationships with women, though, were often troubled and unhealthy.  The best relationship recorded for David is that between him and Jonathon, son of David’s arch enemy, King Saul.  The texts of I & II Sam describe in great detail the interactions between David and Jonathon.  Read through non-heterosexist eyes, this is a story of romance.  The souls of the two men are described as being “joined together as one.”  They make a solemn covenant of fidelity to each other.  They kissed and wept upon having to be parted.  Jonathon is said to have loved David more than his own life.  The most obvious, and most difficult to deny, statement of the depth and nature of the love shared between these two men is found in David’s lament over the deaths of Saul and Jonathon.  In his grief, David states: “I am distressed for you, my brother Jonathan; greatly beloved were you to me; your love to me was wonderful, passing the love of women” (II Samuel 1:26).  Again, it appears that the biblical writers/editors were not troubled by this presentation of a deep love between two men, even with one of those men being the great King David.




More and more it seems that the debate about the biblical passages and homosexuality is a moot point now.  The most certain statement that can be made is that the bible does not address the same-sex relationships encountered in the church today.  Some might even say that the bible is “silent” on this issue. It is also clear that there is no clear condemnation of a caring, committed relationship between two persons of the same sex within the bible.  In fact, it appears that there are at least two examples of positive descriptions of same-sex relationships (i.e., Ruth and Naomi, David and Jonathon).  Those who still hold on to the idea that there are texts that condemn homosexuality, only need to be asked if they still support slavery or stoning sassy children (both of which are clearly sanctioned in the bible).  Despite their claims that they read scripture for the “plain truth,” they have had to do some “interpreting” of their own in the past in order to reject other unjust treatment of human beings. 


Another suggestion is that Christians spend more time reading the texts of the 1st Testament and the gospels rather than the Pauline letters.  If they did, they would note that Jesus never mentioned homosexuality, but he did speak about judging others and welcoming all of God’s children.  With new eyes, persons can find, within the 1st Testament texts, a healthy understanding and appreciation of sex.  If God recognizes humanity’s need for companionship, should it matter if it is with someone of one’s own sex?  At the end of the creation parable in Gen 1, the Creator declares all of creation “Very Good”.  Who are humans to disagree?


Steve Parelli, MDiv/Executive Director/Other Sheep & former Baptist minister

The Bible & Homosexuality